People always ask me, "How long will your program take before I see some
changes. So for this success story I thought I would show you all 3
emails from the same person so you could judge for yourself what a
difference 2 weeks can make once you get the right information.
June 24th- I have given much thought to leaving my husband. He puts
everything before me, his friends, family, and on top of that he has a
bachelor pad that he refuses to move out of. We have been married just
shy of two years. I am fed up with him. My parents are still married
after 33 years. I thought I could do it also. I was looking up divorce
information and I stumbled on to your site. I read the testimonials and
one of the couples shared almost the same feeling as I am now sharing so
I bought your program. I followed the first lesson although it was hard
acting that way towards someone you feel should be begging you to let
them get their act together. But not to jump ahead, I followed your
instructions. (smile)
Since my change in behavior he has said he is moving out of the bachelor
pad. I have had the CD's for almost two weeks now. I am crying as I am
writing you this email. He is excited about the moving out and he told
me he was being selfish and said he just wants me to be happy. I don't
know if I will ever be in love with him again because all of the damage
that he has done. The CD's are beautiful. I love them. When it comes to
practicing them on him, I have to say a prayer to push me to do it. I am
hoping that they will come natural and are not too late. I know
something inside made me buy them.
July 9th- Miracle -Ok now bear with me Ellen- you are not going to
believe this. My husband was treating me like a stranger. He was always
very private, but he was growing distant. He barely wanted to have sex
and the intimacy in itself had almost diminished to nothing. I was not
getting any attention from him. So when he would stay out late, I would
blow up. I did not like his friends they were always coming by announced
and always wanting my husband to go somewhere. I moved to be another
state to marry my husband. So I was angry because of most of the
sacrificing was done on my behalf.
Saturday, one of my husband's friends came over at 2:30am and wanted him
to go out. I was so livid, but I just did not say a word. My husband is
usually very quiet and this is why I was so shocked. There were12 or so
people at out house including my siblings, and my husband turned to his
friend and said "If you can not respect my wife you are not welcome in
my home. He apologized to me again on Monday.
Ellen, I went to the bathroom and cried. I could not believe it. Last
night, I was in the bed and he came to bed and said are you sleeping and
I said , "What's up?" He said, "I am stressed. I have a lot of things on
my mind, can I talk to you?" I was floored. Since Monday we have been
riding to work together. He kisses me before he gets out of the car and
I give him a little spirit finger (just for us). I am so thankful.
August 5th- You will not believe how much love we have now. We are like
honeymooners. It makes everyone sick since we were the ones who were
always yelling at each other. Ellen! thank you. I have my relationship
back. Everyone tells us in the last two weeks we are always late to
everything. We are running late because we are so busy making out before
we leave.
If I could say anything to other women it would be, "hang in there." You
can not control someone else, but the CD's started making me feel like
myself again. The homework may seem so far out of reach because of the
state of your relationship is in at the moment. My advice is to do it
anyway !
Love,
Fatima Johnson
Prattville, Alabama