Dear Dr. Ellen,

I spoke with you several weeks ago about my situation where my husband of 25 years told me that he loved me but wasn't in love with me and I was devastated. I started listening to the tapes and am now into lesson #3 three and already I'm seeing changes in my husband.

He is much more attentive and has started thanking me for things that I do for him. I've done everything you said to do and it's made such a difference. He is reconnecting and this morning as he walked out the door for work, he kissed me and said he loved me. We are talking more and spending quality time together with tenderness.

I don't know how I could possibly convey my gratitude and thanks to you, and I haven't even given him his tapes to listen to yet. I thought I'd wait and let him see the changes in me first and then when the time is right, I'll see if he'd listen to them too. I know now that we will save our marriage.

I've also shared the tapes with my twin sister, who is in a very happy marriage, but hey, if I'd just known some of this stuff earlier, I may not have had to go through this now. Thanks again and I will be forever indebted to you.

Rita W.

Orlando, Florida