Dear Dr. Ellen,

Thank you so much for helping my husband and I to reconcile our marriage. We were on the verge of divorcing. Your tapes "Light His Fire" helped me to realize that I had not been treating my husband the way I should have.

The same day that I listened to your tapes, I called him over to visit. He immediately began to talk about divorce proceedings and, after he was finished, I apologized to him. I apologized for not being supportive, not making him feel valued, not making him feel like my king, for returning almost every gift that he has ever given me, for criticizing, etc.

Everything that you had said not to do, I was doing. I used to put most of the blame on him, but now I know that I played a very significant part in the separation. My husband could not believe what he was hearing from me, he started crying. We talked some more, decided to reconcile, and then had the most passionate love making that was very much due.

He's home and we're listening to your tapes. We plan to take a weekend road trip and will listen to your tapes on the way. I don't know how to thank you. I can only say that our lives have been changed. God sent your message to me at just the right time.

Thank you,

Rita Osbourne

Chicago, Ill