Dear Ellen,

I saw your advertisement in the middle of the night on TV for Light His Fire cassettes. Your clips from your seminars were very compelling and I ordered the tapes even thought I did not have much money at the time. What they taught me was something I don't see in any other teaching materials. I felt that your advice elaborated on things the Bible tells us to be with each other but doesn't give specific examples like you do. Your advice tells us how to make the other person feel good about themselves. I see all types of people married to each other and know you are right, that it isn't necessarily your appearance that stops you from having a great relationship. I followed the advice on your tapes and still do. I have now been happily married for 11 years and recommend your materials to anyone who is interested. In fact, I just recommended your tapes on Light Her Fire to a fellow here at work. Actually the Holy Spirit prompted me to speak to him, quite impromptu, so I did. He said that he was using e-harmony actively trying to find someone compatible. He was very excited to get my recommendation. So you see God likes your advice too and I also believe that He prompted me to originally purchase your tapes. God Bless you Ellen for your work on this subject. I enjoy reading all materials on relationship, but I consider your work the best.

Marla Struyk

Arlington, Virginia