Dear Dr. Ellen,

This note is long overdue, by probably 8 years. Today I ordered our second set of, your "Light His Fire" and "Light Her Fire" programs on CD. My husband ordered our first set in January 1995 when he saw you on T.V. promoting your product. He had never ordered anything from T.V. but was desperate enough that day to do it. You see in December 1994 I had walked out on him and our 2 daughters after 11 years of marriage. I had fallen in love (or so I thought) with another man. I had all but given up on our marriage but even with the deepest hurt of an affair I thank God he hadn't. I didn't really care one way or another if he ordered the tapes but when they arrived I decided to listen to them. As I began to listen I began to think - what was it that had attracted me to him in the beginning, what caused me to look elsewhere. Your talk on virtues and faults really hit home, I realized that I no longer tried to see his virtues (and he has many) but rather I concentrated on his faults.

We were in counseling at this point and honestly it wasn't going well at all. But when we received your tapes and both began listening and doing according to your teachings things happened quickly. Our counselor was amazed with our interaction, we told him about the tapes and that was our last session with him, no more were required. We have learned so much from your teachings, you don't just teach but give step by step instruction on how to do what you teach. Without a doubt your teachings saved our marriage. I can now say I love my husband more than I could ever imagine. We know that love is a decision and true love comes from a commitment to each other, not a feeling!

Thank you so much, may God bless you as you continue to touch and change lives through your teachings.

Perry and Geri Thorne

Cambridge, Ontario