Hi Dr. Ellen,

I bought the tapes and you gave me a letter to give to my wife. Well I wasn't ready to give her the letter but I did buy the program for her and I. When I got the program I had her program in my office and of course I dove right into the program. She saw the program but wanted nothing to do with it. I knew she had been talking with some of her friends that I bought some self help marriage program! I believe she thought I bought it off of some late night home shopping network informercial. I felt like she was just thinking what ever and she was checked out of the marriage. I just stayed the course and started to detach myself and focus on my kids, work and myself while going through the program. Well one day we went somewhere and I had my program playing in my truck. I went to turn it off but she said leave it on. Well that day started the change. One day I get in her car and I realized she had the program playing. I was blown away. This program has changed everything and including some events that helped her with closure. We had a marriage where intimacy was an issue and many other things and she was completely detached! I never imagined we would of had such a turn around. We have been together for 18 years and we are referring your program to everyone. It's not only what it has done for us but how we listen to our kids and communicate to them as well. I am glad a friend told me about you and your program and frankly I saw the stats on marriage counseling and knew that we needed a better way. Marriage counseling stats are horrible and many still end up in a divorce. Please feel free and post our testimonial! If someone on your website is reading this and you feel helpless or need some guidance do not turn this down!!! Don't hesitate in buying the program!! If it comes down to eating for 2 days or buying this program drink lot's of water and buy it. Thanks a million Dr. Ellen!!!

J. Oterol

Bellflower, California