I wrote to you about 6 months ago in an extremely distressed state. I have since listened to your program, "Light Your Own Fire", and it has made an enormous difference in my life. I know that I will continuously turn to your wonderful instructions throughout my life, and I truly want to thank you from the very most loving place in my heart for sending me your teachings from, as you say, "a place of love". Had I had the stability of a successful, healthy family when I was growing up, then perhaps I would not have had such unfortunate circumstances in my life. But I have choices now, and though I may make mistakes, I have made and will continue to make good choices. I hope to, in some small way, keep in touch with you because I think so very highly of you, and appreciate your generosity and truly human compassion so much. Thank you, thank you a thousand times. - Jane - Albuquerque, New Mexico

"Six months ago I found out I had diabetes. I was miserable and feeling sorry for myself. Nothing my husband said or did could comfort me. After a few months, he gave up trying and we were strangers living in the same house. I never imagined how your program would change my life. It was like a miracle. I no longer felt sorry for myself and realized how lucky I was to have a husband who loves me, no matter what. Ellen, you helped me see that life is what you make it. I wasn't a victim anymore. I began to make a plan and everyday I took ACTION. My diabetes is now under control and my husband and I are happier than we've been in a long time. I owe it all to you. Thank you for making me feel so happy again." - Kristine - Phoenix, Arizona

"The most wonderful thing about your program is I could see IMMEDIATE results (I am not very patient). I saw an immediate improvement in my relationship with my husband because I started feeling better about myself and had so much more to give him. I love that you get right to the "meat" of things, down to earth, "what can I do today", rather than lecture to us about the latest scientific findings. Your advice is practical and makes sense. I also like that the program works for me, without involving my husband in awkward "exercises", role plays and so forth, which he hates. I already feel a lot closer again with my husband and we have more fun again. Our relationship feels recharged and energized, exactly what we needed after 8 years. Thank you very much!" - Rebecca - Dallas, Texas

"We have been together for about 21 years. 2 years after we got married, I was in a car accident and lost my right arm below the elbow. After that point our love life went sour and has been that way for most of our marriage. I was so bitter and angry all the time. All I saw was a woman who was so disfigured that she didn't deserve to be loved. Your program taught me how to concentrate on what I do have. I have always been told that I have the most beautiful blue eyes and skin. As I began doing your exercises, I began little by little to reclaim my life and my husband." - Denise - Alberta, Canada