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SUCCESS STORIES My negativity was pushing my husband away Dear Dr. Ellen: I called your 800 number last Friday and asked if there was a money-back guarantee on your program, in case it didn't work. I was very reluctant to buy it, because I had gone to marriage counseling (12 sessions) with my husband of 22 years, and that didn't work at all. The person who answered the phone was very helpful, and what he said convinced me to buy your program. What did I have to lose? My husband had already left the night before, and was going to be gone a week, because he and I needed to clear our minds after all that fighting. I got your program on Monday and listened to your 1st lesson twice. It took practice, but I memorized what to tell him. After I told him, he didn't say anything, but then I hugged him. He hugged me back but barely touched me. On Tuesday, I applied the 2nd lesson. Yesterday, he was home early and was cleaning the bathrooms (he has not done that in a long time). I thanked him profusely, hugged him and told him what a great job he'd done. He hugged me back and held on for a long time. My husband is a very good person, and I know I was pushing him away with all my negativity, but my new goal is to attract him back to me, to the girl he fell in love with 27 years ago (I was 16 and he was 17 when we started dating). I still have ways to go, and I will definitely listen to the rest of your lessons. But I wanted to thank you. You are not only saving my marriage, but my life. I already feel different. I have been catching myself replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, not only with him but with everyone around me, and I haven't felt this good since I was born. Thanks again, and I will definitely talk about this program to everyone I know. Sandra Soriano Aliso Viejo, California To solve your marriage problems without marriage counseling, visit Dr. Ellen's marriage counseling home page |